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Feeling Overwhelmed?

Very often, the idea of a pregnancy brings with it many overwhelming thoughts and feelings. Below are some of the most common questions and concerns voiced by women facing and unplanned pregnancy.

Feeling: This isn't a good time for me........
Response: Don't panic. Slow down. Explore all of your options. Don't rush into a decision.

Feeling: My parents will kill me......
Response: Yes, your parents might initially be upset and disappointed but, they love you and most will want to be there for you. Don't let what others think dictate your actions (response). Decided what is best for you and your baby.

Feeling: Is it really a baby yet?
Response: A baby's heart starts beating on the 18th day after conception. This is way before most women even know they are pregnant. By the 8th week a baby is fully developed and now only needs time to grow larger.

Feeling: My boyfriend will leave me and won't support me....
Response: Your boyfriend is just as responsible for the pregnancy as you are. If he is going to leave you just because you want to give your unborn child a chance at life, then it is questionable whether he loved you at all. Either way he is still legally required to pay child support after the baby is born.

Feeling: My boyfriend/parents want me to have an abortion.
Response: No one can legally force you to have an abortion, but pressure from boyfriend or family can be overwhelming. Don't let anyone force you to have an abortion you are the one who must live with your decision for the rest of your life.

Feeling: I can't afford a baby....
Response: There is a way. There are many government programs and agencies that can help support you through your pregnancy.

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